'Cigarette lelo...beedilelo, bauji Cigarette lelo...beedilelo’
These words of a
small 8 year old child lured the attention of the passengers, who were
travelling in the bus from Sardhana to Meerut (towns near Delhi, India).
This small child
named Madan lived a life,full of struggles and hurdles. He never got a flowery
road, infact there were so many tussles and hard grafts
involved that though he was a highly emotional man, he turned into a strong
cord, mentally as well as financially.
Son of a refugee
from Pakistan, Madan was born on 25 April 1948. When he opened his eyes for the
first time, his family members were in thrashes and turbulence as they had just
survived the partition crash. His father, Shyamlal, was a very modest man and
he couldn’t fetch even a penny from his collection at Pakistan and thereby they
were just bankrupts in their early Indian years. The family lived in Sardhana,
a town near Delhi. Shyamlal somehow managed the household expenditure, merely
living hand to mouth. He followed the barter system, took raw cloth from
manufacturer, carried it on his rented cycle and exchanged it for food items in
the nearby villages.
Once, while selling
his clothes in the muddy village area, during the rainy month of July in 1956, ShyamLal’scycle
slipped, he fell off and broke his limb. This came as a catastrophe for his
family as none could get even a day’s meal. The familysomehow managed for two
days but third day was completely dry. Even the doctor’s fee was pending and Shyam
was advised bed rest for three months. Being the eldest son, Madan could not
bear his two brothers and youngest sister, whom he loved the maximum, suffering
from hunger. He studied in standard nine and was quite young to get any job.
So, he left his studies and thought of earning bread and butter for his
siblings and parents by selling cigarette and match sticks in buses.
Through this Madan
somehow managed to cater to satisfy the hunger of his family members but he was
miserly disturbed by their pathetic condition. He was a child with high ambitions
and he decided to drophis formal education and begin informal but professionaltraining
that could at least save his family from starving. Madan took the lead and at
the age of fourteen, left his town for a few months.He reached out to his
cousin in Meerut to learn the skills of an electrician.
After becoming a
good electrician, Madan wished to begin his own venture at Sardhana, his native
town. Again misfortune troubled him and he had to pass the test by earning
sixty two rupees that he needed to purchase the tools,mandatory to begin his
work as electrician as his father could not affordeven that. He began his work
in partnership with a rich friend who gave him the tools and he gave him fifty
percent of his earnings for six months, before he could buy his own tools.
The journey to
success had begun but it wasn’t a smooth going. Madan had to travel long
distances on foot and hung himself inside the wells to fit motors in them. He
witnessed the initial electric connections in villages and was instrumental in
illuminating in the lives of many by fitting wires of electric currents in
their huts and houses. People blessed him for his hard work and sincerity.
Above all he was highly social and humanistic, never charged a penny more than
he deserved. Gradually his fate started taking positive turns. Soon he opened
an electrician’s shop in the town, which though small had earned the trust of
big number of citizens. Madan’s empathetic nature and good interpersonal skills
fetched him lots of love from the people in and around the town.Owing to his
hard working spirit, a friend from village offered him partnership in a small
handloom factory of cloth manufacturing ie. ‘KHADDI’.
Being a risk taker
at heart, Madan accepted the challenging offer and begun working whole
heartedly by hiring five workers initially. The hand woven cloth that was
produced had less market in the town, so Madan started travelling to export
companies in Panipat and Bombay to sell his products. Himself a ninth dropout,
Madan had the confidence to talk and convince export companies to tie up with
his small venture. He started getting large orders that motivated him to employ
more and more ‘kaarigars’ ie. workers in his factory.
During 1980s, Madan
had to travel almost every month to Bombay by train that kept him more than ten
to fifteen days away from family and on returning to Meerut, many a timeshe did
not find any conveyance for Sardhana. Once he reached Meerut at 9 at night and
the last bus to Sardhana left ten minutes back.Feeling desperate to meet his family
and finding less money in his pocket to rent a guest house, he walked on foot
to travel forty kilometres to reach his hometown.
Though not well
educated, Madan had the qualities of a prodigious businessman, he was risk
taker, responsible and conscientious person along with extraordinary
interpersonal skills that amounted to immense growth in his business. But it
was not a smooth journey to success. Madan had to pass through various harsh
experiences and losses during this expedition. Being humble fetched him a lot
of punishments as his customers cheated him by not paying for his products.
Some exporters even refused to take big orders after production.
Madan was a man
with strong will power and full of remarkable positivity. Big losses could not
break his determination to reach heights. Along with cloth manufacturing unit,
he invested his earning in a potato store house in 1990s, an effort to regain
his losses, but destiny was quite upset with him and he had to undergo another
big loss there. It seemed quite difficult to survive this time.
As said ‘To be successful in life, one has to be an
ardent learner as for a learner even failure is an extraordinary experience.’
Madan too learnt from these experiences and pledged to start afresh and decided
instead of apportioning his attention to many tasks, he would concentrate on
one work. He thought of expanding his cloth manufacturing unit and constraining
his market to areas where he could easily keep track of payments and
deliveries.
He searched for
gainful and lucrative market within NCR and Delhi region. Daily commuting to
these places in whatever conveyance available as bullock carts or busses or
scooters, he used to feel happiness at the end of the day as he was back with
his family. He was happy that his family was getting good food and his
children, who were born after ten years of his marriage, were studying in the
best schools of Meerut. Again the happy days were disturbed by stormy times.
One day while
driving back from Meerut on his scooter, Madan was attached by dacoits and they
hit him on his head. That was a fatal blow to him. He was accompanied by his
father that day and Shyamlal was also badly injured by them. The dacoits
snatched all their money and belongings and left them semi-conscious on the
road. Madan exhibited his bravery and patriarchy by gathering courage to stand
in the mid of the road in front of a bus that was speedily heading towards
Meerut from Sardhana. Initially the bus driver got scared to see a man with
bleeding head, trying to stop the bus but a person sitting on the front seat
recognized him and forced the driver to help Madan. With God’s grace Madan and
his father were taken to a hospital at Meerut and their lives were saved, but
that day itself Madan decided to shift to a safer place with his family and
they all came to Meerut.
Migrating to Meerut
was also not that easy. It was a resettling phase, a restart of everything.
Madan had to shift his factory to Meerut first and that took him through a
whole lot of struggles again. He took a huge loan for the same and slept in the
factory on floor, without proper fans, amongst mosquitoes and worms of all
kinds for two long years, till the structure of the factory was ready to shift
the handlooms along with new power looms to meet the demand of the exporting
companies. In 1993, Madan brought his family as well as work to Meerut.
At Meerut initially
the family lived in a rented house and due to the pressure of heavy loans they
again lived hand to mouth. There were days when Madan could not sleep for
nights because of loan and stress at work. Still he never left a chance to buy
enjoyment and entertainment for his family. He was blessed with four children,
three sons and a daughter and every summer holidays, he took them out of
station for an outing on a rented car.
Truly God helps
those who help themselves, as Madan was so anxious and ambitious and on the top
of it so hardworking, by and large he managed to own his first second hand car
in 1996. In 1998, he inaugurated his new own new house and then after facing
all the ups and downs in the work, he progressed with leaps and bounds.
Hebegun to be
counted amongst leading industrialists in cloth and chain manufacturing with three
industries, two villas and three luxurious cars under his umbrella during 2012.
Nevertheless, since
then after much contemplation, conscientious hard work and sincere dedicated
efforts, Madan is living his life as he wished to. His loans have been almost
paid back.One of his sons is the permanent resident of Australia, the other two
sons have taken over his business and his daughter is a successful professor in
the top most university of the state. Madan has been quite fond of travelling
and he has done All India tours along with visiting his son in Australia
numerous times.
Though the complete
life and successful attainment of his aspirations are an inspiration for all, the
best motivation in his life is how he’s able to attain success without
sacrificing his values and giving full respect and love to his family members.
He shouldered all the responsibilities of his father and played the role of
eldest brother in the best possible manner. He arranged the marriage of both
his brothers and sister better than a father would do. He settled both his
brothers in their business.
His achievements
can be laid down in the words…. “He was the son every parent would pray for, he
was the brother every sibling would ask for, he was the husband every wife
would wow for and he was the father every child would seek for.” He is the
businessman par excellence who has passed his qualities and skills of hard work,
sincerity and interpersonal relations to his children along with his talents of
orator ship and acting. May God give my ‘papa ji’ (father) a long and happy
life!
Manager-Institutional Affairs
KIET Group of Institutions
Ghaziabad
A very inspiring story. Kudos!
ReplyDeleteInspirational, motivational and more respect for u madam,
DeleteJai ho
Beautifully expressed !!! Such a heart touching story
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